Ask Janine: Why hasn't my spell come to fruition?

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Hi Janine,
About 4 months ago I casted a love spell to get my ex partner back. I put so much intention into the ritual…but still have not seen results. What gives?

Best,
Waiting and heartbroken

Dear Waiting and Heartbroken,

It’s the classic rom-com setup: Main Character meets lover. Main Character gets dumped. Main Character casts a spell to get ex back.

They light the candles, whispers those intentions, and waits for the cosmic postal service to deliver love back to that doorstep. But, four months later, the only thing arriving is a heap of frustration and a side of heartache. What gives?

Let me let you in on a little secret about magic…it’s unfortunately not always Amazon Prime. You can’t place your order with the Universe and expect same-day delivery.

Spells are like seeds. You plant them, water them, and let them bloom in their own time. But what happens if you keep digging up the soil to check if it’s growing? You stifle the very magic you’re trying to nurture. Your energy shifts from trusting in your power to hyperfixating on the outcome. And nothing screams “needy” to the Universe like an overwatered spell.

Love spells are like that old text from your ex you read on repeat—they feel potent in the moment, but over time, the real magic is in letting go. When you release control, you create space for something better—whether it’s a healed version of your ex or a new love that matches the fresh, radiant you.

So here’s the deal: Stop refreshing your inbox waiting for cosmic confirmation. Let the Universe surprise you. And remember, love spells work best when they’re about attracting what you deserve; not what you’re still holding onto.

And, you deserve nothing less than magic. ✨

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